Losing Weight Is Actually HARD, So Don’t Be So Hard on Yourself

Mar 18, 2025

 

Why Losing Weight Feels Like a Battle

Losing weight isn’t just about eating less and moving more. Your body is an incredibly adaptive system designed for survival. It holds onto fat when it senses imbalance, and if all the right pieces aren’t in place, it can feel like you’re fighting against yourself.

If you’ve spent years eating mindlessly, gaining weight slowly over time, it’s unrealistic to expect results overnight. Weight loss is a process—it takes time, consistency, and practice.

At first, it might feel like the pounds are melting away, and then… suddenly, progress slows.

But here’s the reality:

  • 10 years of weight gain doesn’t disappear in 4 weeks of clean eating.
  • A more realistic expectation? For every year of weight gain, it may take 1-2 years of consistency to truly reset your body. And honestly, that’s not such a bad ratio when you think about it.

How Your Body Gains & Loses Weight

Your body stores fat as a backup energy source when carbohydrates (glucose) run low. That fat is stored inside fat cells as triacylglycerol—think of tiny water droplets filling up your fat cells over time.

If you consistently consume more energy than you burn, these fat cells expand, leading to weight gain. But when you start burning fat, those cells don’t disappear—they shrink.

Types of Fat

Not all fat is created equal. Your body has two main types of fat:

1️⃣ White Fat (The One We Want to Lose) – This sits under your skin and around your organs. If you say, “I have a six-pack under my belly fat,” you’re right—you just can’t see it because white fat is covering it.

2️⃣ Brown Fat (The Fat That Burns Fat) – You’re born with small amounts of brown fat, which actually burns calories to keep your body temperature stable. Unfortunately, as adults, we don’t have much of it—but eating healthy fats and staying active can help stimulate similar fat-burning effects.

So what happens when you start burning fat? Your body breaks down stored fat, releases it into the bloodstream, and eliminates it through:
Breathing (Yes, you exhale fat as carbon dioxide!)
Sweating
Urinating

This is why exercise boosts metabolism—it increases your body’s ability to break down and eliminate fat.

The Ugly Truth About Fat Cells (And Why Losing Weight Is Harder Than Gaining It)

Here’s what most people don’t know:
👉 You don’t actually lose fat cells—you just shrink them.
👉 Once you create fat cells, they don’t go away. Even if they die off, your body replaces them.
👉 Your body is wired to regain weight. It’s a survival mechanism to store energy for future use.

This is why keeping the weight off requires long-term lifestyle changes, not just short-term calorie restriction. But don’t worry—once you reach your goal, maintenance is WAY easier! The 80/20 rule allows flexibility while keeping those fat cells from refilling.

Why Gaining Weight Isn’t Just About Calories

Weight gain doesn’t happen overnight, and it’s not just about “calories in vs. calories out.” Other factors that can stall weight loss include:

  • Hormonal imbalances (hello, cortisol and insulin resistance!)
  • Chronic stress (raises cortisol, which signals fat storage)
  • Liver congestion (your body can’t detox properly)
  • Gut microbiome imbalances (poor gut health affects metabolism)
  • Undiagnosed autoimmune conditions

If you’ve been eating clean and working out but still struggling to lose weight, it’s time to look beyond just diet and exercise.

Weight loss isn’t a quick fix—it’s a process that takes patience, consistency, and the right mindset. Be kind to yourself. If you keep making progress (even slowly), you’re on the right track.

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